6 clear signs that you need to give your partner some space
1. They Seem Frustrated All The Time
You know that cranky feeling you get when you just need a few moments of peace but aren’t able to get some? Yeah well, others happen to get just as annoyed. Look out for similar signs of frustration in your partner and try to understand their situation instead of arguing about it.
2. They seem distant
If your partner hasn’t been opening up to you as much as they used to, is holding back thoughts and feelings or simply does not seem as enthusiastic about spending time together – it may not necessarily be about you. There’s probably a lot that’s going on in their mind and they haven’t got the time and space to process any of it. In this case, allow them to do that until they feel like themselves again.
3. They Keep Cancelling Plans
If they’ve been trying to avoid you even when things seem fine, it might mean that they need a little space. If that’s the case, do not force them into spending time with you and instead just give them their shot at getting their calm.
4. They Don’t Discuss Their Day With You
If it’s been a while since your partner shared details of their day with you or asked you about yours, there are high chances that they need some space from you. Men often tend to shut off emotionally when they’re not in the right headspace and find their partners too clingy.
5. They don’t text you often
If your partner hasn’t been texting you as often as they used to, your mind may trick you into jumping to the worst possible conclusions. If you encourage these thoughts, it will only hamper your relationship.
Rather than assuming, make the effort to ask. If they still do not open up, be patient and respectfully back off. Understand that they may not have the mental capacity to talk to you as frequently as they did before. Instead, be the first one to text and check up on them.
6. They Fight With You For No Reason
Have you been feeling that your partner has been picking fights with you for no reason and then not calling you to make up for a very long time? If yes, it probably means that they are finding ways to put some distance between the two of you and relax during the downtime. Take this as your cue and back off, but not without addressing the issue first. That way, you’ll create a comfortable space for them to open up. Later, you can talk about how much space you both need in the relationship to feel close yet independent.
