7 Things A Man Will Stop Doing For You When He Stops Loving You
1. He has stopped telling you he loves you
When a man is in love he makes it obvious to you and to the world. He should be letting you know, without a shred of hesitance, that he loves you.
If your guy is not showing that he loves you like he used to, or has stopped saying it to you, it most probably means he doesn’t.
2. He Doesn’t Prioritize Time with You
He used to make time to see you. Even if you weren’t the center of his world, you were definitely one of his favorite humans.
Now, he doesn’t prioritize time with you. It’s an afterthought, or he might even be actively avoiding you. He’s less concerned with seeing you, but you’ve noticed he still has free time to do anything else he wants to do.
3. He doesn’t help you when you’re suffering
If he doesn’t show interest in comforting or helping you when you are in a bad place, he is breaking off one of the most important ways to emotionally connect – and this is a sign that he could be thinking of cutting ties altogether.
4. He Stops Complimenting You
You still think he’s the bees’ knees, but he never seems to call you beautiful anymore.
In fact, you got your hair cut, and he doesn’t even notice. He’s stingy with compliments in a way that he never was before. In fact, you don’t even notice they’re gone until you can’t remember the last time he told you that you looked nice.
4. He never calls first
Sure, there will be times when you have to call him first but if you still have a place in his heart, you wouldn’t be the only one doing it all the time. Among other indications, calling first shows that he thinks about you and that his affection for you is natural and not forced.
One of the first things you’ll notice when you keep being the one calling first is a strange delay in the time he takes to pick up his phone, lack of enthusiasm or aggressiveness in his tone, or an unwillingness to speak with you, among other things. You should be quick to read and understand what is going on once you start paying attention to all these signs.
5. He doesn’t get jealous
He may pretend he is not jealous but the truth is all men have a bit of possessiveness over their women hiding inside. It’s only a matter of how well they are able to hide it (rarely too well).
But even if he is hiding his jealousy, you have to be able to notice a change if you pay attention to his behavior. After careful observation, you will understand if he’s not showing any signs of being jealous at all. And that’s a truly bad sign.
6. He Doesn’t Work on Fixing the Relationship
He seems completely detached from resolving anything. You offer to go to counseling if that would help, but he dismisses the idea.
You try to confront him about how you’re feeling, but he manages to turn the tables or distract you with something else. Whatever else he’s doing, he’s not fixing this.
7. He’s Less Interested in $ex or $exting
He used to send you $exy little messages or initiate s-x whenever possible. Now, it seems like he deflects when you bring it up.
Even when he does engage, it’s not at the previous level of intimacy.
When you ask him what’s going on, he always has a reason, but you wonder if it’s the real one when your s+x life never recovers from whatever stressful event he blames.
