Between wife and mistress, if forced to choose, who will a man choose? It’s heartbreaking, but if in a conversation between men who are good at hiding infidelity, they will say they wouldn’t choose anyone. Because once undetected, men are always greedy. When they are not exposed, when no one detects their greed, men are wise and want to have both.
But if next to a hot mistress or wife, a man’s choices will never match.
When they are with their foreign affairs, they will say it is foolish not to choose someone who will give them passionate love. When they are with their sacrificed wife, they will feel sad and insist on choosing only their wife.
In truth, the men’s choices at those two times were just excuses, to make their mistress gloat and to give their wives peace of mind. In their hearts, it is clear that they do not love anyone more, they only love themselves.
When discovered, men are forced to choose between wife and mistress. Most men at that time wisely chose their wives.
Because for men, the wife is the main life, the daughter-in-law of their parents, and the mother of their children. Wives are also their dignity and self-esteem. They can give up meaningless love affairs, but must keep their wife beside them.
Above all, they are wise enough to understand that no one will be better than their wife. For these men, matter how far they go, they still have to come home.
However, there are still people who choose their mistress instead of their wife. This is basically abandonment of his wife and children, rather than a choice.
The wives of these men must have been saddened a lot by the pain of betrayal. She probably experienced the feeling of being abandoned and heartless, until her husband really didn’t want to return anymore.
But this choice of men never has a good ending. A traitor who abandons his wife and children like this is just a stupid man.
Men may never have thought they would have an affair, but after having an affair, they think there is nothing else they can do. But no matter what a man’s choice is, the one who hurts the most is his wife and children.
Women and children are always the ones who suffer the most in a broken marriage. The people with the most discretion and choice are men. Unfortunately, not all men realize it.
Because when they have an affair, men only think about themselves the most, even when they regret it. Even if the wife is heartbroken and the child is suffering, they may not fully understand it.
And if men can return by making the right choice, it is not certain that they will live well again. Once men learn to choose between their wives and temptations, their fidelity basically fades away. Their wives can forgive, but never forget for the rest of their lives, like carrying a deep wound, making it difficult to find peace…
