The story of a husband’s or boyfriend’s ex-lover always gives many women headaches.
Between couples who have just fallen in love, there are always sweet things about loving only the other person. But once you’ve been in love for a long time or married, things become different and many stories will happen.
Among them, one of the most “painful” problems is the ex. At this time, many women say they don’t care but in their hearts they care very much. If you discovered that your husband still had feelings for his ex-girlfriend, would you accept it?
Women can react very differently when their husband still has an ex in his heart
Elise and her husband met while working at the same company. Because she was raised very strictly, her husband was her first love. Her husband is a sweet person and loves her very much. But after getting married, she accidentally discovered another woman’s photo on her husband’s cell phone.
After questioning, she found out that this was his ex-girlfriend. From her husband’s eyes, Tieu Diem clearly felt that her husband still had this ex-girlfriend in his heart. Even though her husband told his ex-girlfriend that they were married and could no longer afford it and that keeping the photos was just a memory of their youth, this still made her feel very hurt, and she always felt that her husband I’m not completely faithful to myself.
The second person interviewed was Ms. Anna. She knew about this but didn’t care at all because her husband was very good to her.
She and her husband have a son and a daughter, their relationship is very good, her husband is very responsible for the family. He treated her like a child, always taking good care of her, doing all the cooking and washing in the house. When mentioning her husband, her face smiled happily. She and her husband met in college, but they weren’t each other’s first.
But now the family is very happy and loves her husband very much, so Ms. Truong thinks there is no need to worry about the past. “Because we know what it feels like to lose someone you love, we will now appreciate it more,” she said.
Everyone has a period of youth, whether man or woman. It’s not uncommon for a husband to have an ex-girlfriend and even still miss her from time to time during their marriage. The most important thing is that in your husband’s heart right now, does he put you and your family first? If in your husband’s heart, you are the number 1 priority, then what does it matter if your ex-girlfriend shows up?
As for girls or boys who are still attached to their ex even though they know there is no more possibility, we don’t need to rush. Still missing and even waiting hopelessly is a normal psychology, especially when you once loved sincerely and truly. But how you handle that love and move on is important. And certainly, revenge is never the right path.
