Signs You’re With A Person Who Truly Loves You
Falling love is always a crucial time in our lives. There’s a lot of excitement and joy and a little bit of fear because you are scared things won’t work out. Love can be so powerful that it leaves you unable to think rationally and you end up seeing the world through rosy spectacles.
We’d all give an arm and a leg to be certain that the person we’re choosing is actually in love with us too. Here are some indicators that can help you get closer to what you want to know
1. Their sweetness is spontaneous and unpredictable.
They don’t need anniversaries or any special occasions just to show how much they love and adore you. Even on ordinary days, they’re just the sweetest and the most thoughtful partner and you feel so lucky to have met someone who would go an extra mile just to make you smile.
2. They remember important dates and details.
No matter how forgetful they are, they’ll make sure to write down or set up reminders just to make sure that they won’t miss the most important dates and details in your life: birthdays, anniversary, the first day you met, your first movie together, that enchanting restaurant where you celebrated your birthday, etc.
3. They ask too many “Are you okay?” and “Is this okay?” all the time.
And they will never force you into doing something uncomfortable. If someone does otherwise, then you’ll know that you’re with the wrong person.
Being in a relationship doesn’t mean giving up your right to make your own decisions; being in a commitment doesn’t mean giving someone the power to control your life.
4. They make you feel beautiful inside and out.
The people who truly love you will see and appreciate you for who you are. With them, you feel as if you’re the most beautiful person in the world and that your existence matters.
They will love everything about you and they will see your imperfections as a precious uniqueness – one of the sweetest reasons why they chose you.
5. They’re your number one fan – and they’ll show it every day.
They’ll be the first in line to ask for your autograph – the cheerleader who will never stop encouraging you to do your best, win or lose, success or failure. They’ll be there every step of the way.
6. They will get angry at you but they will never stop caring.
There are times when anger is our first and only response to an unresolved argument with our significant other. However, it doesn’t mean that succumbing to this relatively negative emotion means letting go of the love you have for them.
You know you’re genuinely loved when no matter how angry or disappointed they get, they will never stop caring: they will still make sure you didn’t miss your meal; they will still remind you to take your vitamins; they won’t let you go to bed sad and alone.
7. They will never let you feel alone – even if they’re miles away.
Someone who truly loves you will never make you feel that you have no one to turn to especially when you need love the most. Even if they’re miles away, they will do everything they can just to remind you that someone’s there to cheer you up and give you a hug – even if it’s just a virtual one.
8. They let you have the best of everything.
They treat you like you’re a queen – someone who deserves all the good things that life has to offer.
If they know that something can make your day, they’ll give it to you. If they found out how this particular place can put the widest smile on your face, they’ll do everything to bring you there.
9. They will always choose you and your relationship.
No matter what happens and how many times you fight, at the end of the day, they will always come home to you; they will always choose you, all the time.
