Both of Her Parents Left Forever, So College Student Stepped Up to Raise Her 5 Younger Siblings
A heroic sister is taking care of her five siblings while attending college and working a part-time job.
Samantha Rodriguez,from Orlando, was only 17 years old when she and her five younger siblings lost both their parents to cancer. Even as she mourned them, the teen was vividly aware of the fact that without an adult to look after them, her siblings were in danger of heading to the state’s foster-care system. Determined not to break her dad’s promise to her mother, the young woman decided to do everything in her power to keep the family together. Even if it meant putting her life on hold to be the adult in the family.
Rodriguez, who’s now 21, kept her siblings fed, clothed and attending school regularly, almost entirely by herself as no one else in the family has the means to take them in.
In an interview with The View, Rodriguez, who’s now 21, shares:
“My reality [was] I’m 17 but these are my brothers and sisters, and when I looked at them, I knew that they’re children. They’re vulnerable and they need an adult, so I became their adult.”
Rodgriguez’s younger siblings, Destiny (7), Bella (9), Michael (12), Brenda (15), and Milagros (16) found in her a parent, sister and role model in the way she’s held the family together after tragedy threatened to tear them apart.
Samantha was strong enough to overcome the sadness and focus on keeping her family together.
“I knew what I had to do. I learned so much from my mom. I was like her sidekick. I learned what it meant to raise a family.”, She told CNN.
Although juggling between all of her responsibilities is incredibly challenging, Samantha shares she continued with her studies because she wants to give her younger siblings a good example:
“I can’t tell them to be successful in school if I wasn’t. So that’s when I decided to go back… When I realized that I wanted the kids to finish and that I wanted them to be successful, I was like I need to give them that example and show them.”, she explained. “When I [graduated] the kids were very proud of me and they came to my graduation and it was amazing.”
Even now, as she goes to college part-time and waitresses, Rodriguez takes care of all daily tasks, including providing meals, taking her siblings to school, doctor’s appointments, sports practices and helping with homework. “I get a lot of that strength from my mother,” she said. “I spent a lot of time with her and I admired her so much. When we lost her, I knew that I wanted to be just like her in every way. That’s what I wanted to do for the kids.”
The young woman explained that she tries to set the best example possible for her siblings by following the lessons she learned from her parents. “They showed us not to take anything for granted. That’s something I try to teach the kids. At the end of the day, the material things don’t matter. What’s given can be taken away so fast. The only thing that really matters is family and love and support,” she said. “This is what makes me, me,” Rodriguez said of caring for her siblings at such a young age, “It makes me so happy to be with them and to be there for them. It’s very enjoyable for me.”
References: The view, edition.cnn.com
