6 ways to maintain your partner’s interest in you
What you will do when you suddenly realize that your partner is losing interest in you? You will definitely not feel good. So in order to maintain your partner’s interest in you, here are a few tips that can be helpful in such a situation
1. Groom yourself and look your best
Sometimes our everyday casual looks may make you partner lose interest in you. First, keep in mind that you shouldn’t compare yourself with others around. You are different and it is important that you be yourself. You should try wearing different and colourful outfits. It gives a lively feeling to the other person. You can even try changing your looks by getting a new haircut, wearing a new pair of glasses or shades.
2. Keep them intrigued
Opening up completely to your partner quickly will later lead to boredom when you have nothing new to tell or show about yourself to your partner. Be secretive and slowly bring out new things about yourself. This keeps them hooked on to you.
3. Plan for new surprises
It may be possible that you have given your partner a lot of surprises at the beginning itself but a new surprise every time excites the opposite person all over again. Try and make the surprise different from the previous ones like plan and adventure trip for the both of you or with a group, go on a date at a cruise or anything like that. Gift them with their favorite perfume or their favorite gadget they always wanted to buy.
4. Do things of their interest
This will make them happy and joyful. Suppose you know that your partner always wanted to learn horse riding but due to some or the other reason, they could not do it. Get your name and your partner’s name enrolled for horse riding classes somewhere.
5. Pamper them
Everyone loves to be pampered especially girls. And even though guys may say they don’t like all this pampering, but somewhere, they enjoy it too. You can pamper them by taking them out for shopping, gifting them a spa voucher or anything.
6. Be enthusiastic
Suppose you both get free time on the weekend, don’t just let the weekends pass by sitting and relaxing at home. Be enthusiastic and ask your partner to plan a weekend getaway. It is a very good option to spend quality time with each other.
In every relationship, there comes a time when you partner may lose little bit of interest you. This does not mean that they are going out with someone else. It just means they are busy in other important things in life and their focus has shifted a little bit towards those things rather than you. First of all, don’t be disheartened. Things are not over between you both. There is still hope. All you need is to remind your partner about all that you both have shared; the love, the care, the emotions and everything.
