8 signs he just wants to sleep with you and doesn’t want any lasting relationship
1. If he rarely seems to care how you’re feeling.
Have you never heard him randomly ask if you’re upset, ask how your day was, or just wonder why you have tears in your eyes? If he seems absolutely allergic to your emotions, then chances are it’s not because he’s too shy to ask or too awkward to help you deal with it, but it’s because he just doesn’t really care that much. If he’s just into you for sleeping with you, then any of your complicated, passionate feelings will be a trouble for him and nothing more.
2. If He’s secretive about his past
If you are the only one disclosing all the details of your past history/ escapades, relationships, etc, and he never shares real details about his past, but always phrases questions to get more information about you, then be careful he is trying to manipulate you.
See how he reacts when you ask him what he’s thinking, feeling, wondering about. If he immediately backs off, then you have a problem.
3. If he never reveals personal information.
He gives few or no details about themselves. Have you gleaned what you know about him from friends, personal observation, general conversations, past interactions, or has he really volunteered personal and revealing information about himself to you? This is a very telling point, so it is worth considering carefully.
4. If he only contacts you after dark
If your guy only calls you hours after the sun has set below the horizon and the stars come out, chances are, it’s not because he’s in the mood for stargazing but because he’s definitely in the mood for some sex. If you never hear from him until evening hours, unless he is a doctor and has a very busy schedule, it’s likely that it means he only wants to sleep with you on his mind.
5. If he doesn’t respond to you unless you want to hook up.
If you text him to say, “How’s your day going?” or “How was your big interview?” and you hear nothing all day, then he doesn’t want to make small talk. But if you text him a casual “I want to see you tonight,” one night, and he cancels other plans to see you, then there is a problem.
6. If you never kiss without it leading to s*x.
In most relationships, people kiss just to show affection, to feel a connection, and to be intimate in a quick and enjoyable fashion. You can just be kissing when you’re taking a walk, kissing in a dark bar, or just because you have the urge to cuddle but not to make love.
If every time you kiss your man, he starts reaching for your body parts, then he may think that he should only kiss you for some sexy time.
