A man who loves you genuinely will never make you do these things no matter what
1. Change who you are
A man should not ask you to change who you are because, if you do, then it will only be pretence and you won’t be happy pretending to be someone else. You are who you are, you should be proud of that, and he should love you for it too.
2. Stop seeing your family
No matter what happens, he doesn’t have the right to tell you to stop seeing your family, or to make you choose between them and him. Your family were around way before him and they could be around long after too.
3. Stop seeing your friends
Friends are an important part in our life. If he is trying to stop you from going out with your friends, then that’s a sign of his own insecurities or of his controlling nature and you shouldn’t be putting up with it.
4. Have physical intimacy without protection
Unless you are really settled in a long term relationship, then physical intimacy without a ‘protection’ is an obvious no-no and a man should never ask you to do it. Some guys do still have a hang up about using a safety hat, but, if he has that little respect for you, then it should be telling you something more about this man.
5. Have an ab0rtion
The man who loves you truly must step up to the mark and take his responsibilities seriously. He should never, under any circumstances, tell the woman to have an ab0rtion. That is a very emotional decision that only the woman can make and then the man should be there to support her, whatever she decides.