Smart women often do these 3 simple things so their man NEVER want to chєαt
Smart women know there are simple things that can encourage a BETTER marriage so that he won’t want to cheat. What you have to do is to put REAL love and connection back in your relationship. Here how they keep their husbands’ heart focused on them forever
1. They hug their guy every single day
The physical nature of your relationship is important. It includes: holding hands, looking into each other’s eyes, kissing, caressing, and making L0ve.
This may seem obvious, but too often we overlook and forget to simply reach out and touch our partner. If this is so for you, then set time aside for intimacy, affection and physical contact. Don’t get so caught up in the day-to-day of living that you take your relationship for granted.
2. They make time to really talk
Connecting at the mental level helps keep couples together and healthy, frequent communication is key to any successful relationship. If you don’t communicate with your partner regularly, how can you expect to know what they’re feeling? How could they possibly know what you’re feeling if you don’t tell them?
Too often, we find that we’re speaking at one another instead of with one another. I suggest dedicating 15-minutes a day to just TALKING with each other.
On a good day you can tell each other what you appreciate and love about one another. On a not so good day you can discuss what your particular issue, problem, or concern is. But don’t make it the “Honey, we need to talk” kind of talk.
Connect with one another. Be friends. You’re on the same team.
3. They know how to just be there for him
Being in the same room together is not the same thing as actually “being” together. The latter requires mindfulness — an awareness of (and presence in) what’s going on in the present moment.
And, being in your relationship is all about noticing what’s going on with your spouse in the here and now. What’s his mood? What does his body language tell you? You can’t meet your husband’s needs if you’re not truly noticing what they are. The little things you notice and respond to in a positive way help make your relationship stronger.
In our distracted society (TVs, cell phones, and digital devices), you might need to practice this heightened awareness of your spouse, your surroundings and your relationship. Begin by finding moments between moments and focus on one thing and one thing only. (You can start by putting your phone away.) It’s hard for a man to feel loved when his wife’s attention constantly feels only half there.
Remember, whether your man chєαts is ultimately out of your control.
