Fighting over a husband, or doing things that affect honor are things that wise women absolutely say no to when they know their husband is having an ᴀғғᴀɪʀ.
A wise woman who wants to live in peace should learn to “take things lightly”. For example, when your husband has an ᴀғғᴀɪʀ, you need to know what to do and what not to do to avoid harming yourself.
3 things to do
Keep calm
When you know your husband is ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛɪɴɢ, the first thing a woman needs to do is stay calm. Try to stay calm and consider everything. Women differ from each other in how they behave during this stormy time. A wise person will stay calm and know their enemy. A foolish person will make a big deal out of it in order to embarrass their husband and his mistress.
Make a financial plan for yourself
Foolish women plan to fight with their husbands, and spend a lot of time and effort following them. Wise women just stay at home and take inventory of their shared assets. In addition, women should learn about marriage laws so as not to suffer losses. Because when the worst happens, you are ready for a breakup and a fair division of assets.
Work, earn money
What a wise woman should do is to continue working and earning money. Don’t waste time and effort fighting to keep your husband. Women should remember that you can still live without a man, but without money, you will suffer greatly.
3 things absolutely should not do
Adul:tery
Men who ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛ and women who ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛ are foolish women. Instead of ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛɪɴɢ to get ʀᴇᴠᴇɴɢᴇ on your husband, focus on beautifying yourself, traveling, and making money. Don’t be foolish enough to commit adul:tery and sell your dignity. Don’t let the ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛɪɴɢ man take advantage of the opportunity to insult and degrade you.
Spread the news of her husband’s infid:elity everywhere
A wise woman does not tell everyone about her husband’s infid:elity. She does not tell everyone about the bad things in the house. Because people’s tongues are very vicious. At that time, the only ones who will be crit:icized are women. People will mock you for being useless and not being able to keep your husband.
Jealousy
The most foolish woman is to fight over her husband. Smart people only use their brains, not their hands. They only use their minds to solve problems. Using force to harm the other person’s body will only get you into trouble.
