In the course of my profession, I encounter numerous admirable husbands and their devoted wives. Gradually, it becomes apparent that certain patterns exist among these men, particularly as I engage in discussions with other wives about the factors influencing their choice of life partners and the qualities in their husbands that have significantly impacted their marriages.
For all those single women out there who often wonder what type of man they should marry or how they will know if he’s “The One” they’re meant to spend forever with, this list is 100 percent for you.
Derived from my firsthand experiences as a wife, the encounters with numerous wives in my role as a Weddings and Relationships editor, and the observations of commendable husbands I’ve come across throughout the years, this list may not cover all the answers, but it undoubtedly provides valuable insights. I encourage you, ladies, to read on and make note of the wisdom it offers.
1. The Provider
Family is his top priority, without exception. A selfless individual, he finds fulfillment in pleasing those he cares about the most. This man is capable of effortlessly juggling two jobs, constantly brainstorming additional side hustles to boost his earnings, and safeguarding his savings with unwavering dedication.
He cannot rest until he ensures the well-being of his loved ones. He pursues excellence both at home and in the office. While maintaining a work-life balance is crucial, he is always willing to put in extra hours and make sacrifices if it means a better life for his loved ones. Words like “no,” “can’t,” and “impossible,” are just not in his vocabulary, and when he hears others use them, it only increases his devotion to the task at hand.
Why He Makes a Good Husband: Marriage is the start of a new family — your family. You will both want to provide for the family you create together, and it’s imperative that you are partners with the same goals in mind. That said, there will be times when one person just cannot do as much as the marriage (or family) requires — such is life. Marrying a natural-born provider will be a huge plus when the scales in your marriage tip, as they inevitably will at different points along your path.
2. The Rock
During your most vulnerable moments, his strength provides stability and motivates you to persevere. While he is not impervious to pain or frustration, he handles them adeptly and possesses the ability to lift himself out of challenging situations.
He’s the sort of man who always answers your call, especially when he senses that you need to share your thoughts or simply have a friend by your side. Speaking of chests, his is always there for you to lean on, squeeze, and find comfort in when it feels like only a hug will do.
Why He Makes a Good Husband: He’s loyal, devoted, and a true pillar in the world of the woman he loves. This is the perfect recipe for a loving husband that you can count on through thick and thin; what woman doesn’t dream of marrying one of those?
3. The Critical Thinker
There’s no problem, whether significant or trivial, that he isn’t eager to resolve. He’s a swift and dependable thinker who dislikes feeling cornered. He doesn’t just see the problem in front of him; he sees a road map of the many solutions available to him and takes his time as he determines the best way to get there, or the course of action he must take. He exercises patience out of necessity, understanding that hurrying rarely yields the solution. Diligent and focused, he sees himself as a mental Olympian of sorts.
Why He Makes a Good Husband: Marriage is truly beautiful, but it comes with its share of problems, and its rough patches. Happier times aren’t always just around the bend — getting there may require a detailed plan and thinking smarter, not harder. He excels as a team player, especially in moments when the key to success lies in collaborative efforts. Trust me, such situations can and will arise in marriage.
4. The Believer
Even when the world around him crumbles and the prospect of sunshine feels distant, this man maintains his belief – his faith serves as his unwavering foundation. It sustains him through both the good and the bad, never faltering.
He believes in the things unseen and those that many give up on when the world turns cold: hope, morals, kindness, and good will. He has a church home, or a religious mainstay in his life and the fellowship refuels his engines. He’s God-fearing (whoever his God) and he’s proud of his strong beliefs. His moral compass is always turned in a positive direction, and he refuses to accept failure. He helps others and chooses to live his life in a way he believes others should live theirs.
Why He Makes a Good Husband: This man has the emotional tools needed in his toolbox to repair many of the cracks and dents that will inevitably appear in any marriage. He’s a fighter, and he will fight with you and for your marriage. He won’t give up, even when you do.
5. The Free Spirit
Being in the company of this man is always refreshing. He perceives life as an adventure, rendering him almost impervious to the physical tolls of stress and worry. It’s not that he doesn’t experience these emotions; he simply chooses not to be overwhelmed by them. He maintains a positive outlook and strives to relish every facet of his life to the fullest extent possible.
He has most likely chosen a career he loves over one that pays all the bills. Therefore he’s just as passionate about his work as he can be about feeding his cravings for new adventures. He enjoys traveling and most likely has a bucket list at least a quarter complete. He doesn’t believe in wasting time worrying about what can’t happen and prefers to shift his focus to what can.
In his presence, dull moments are a rarity, whether at home, in the bedroom, or out and about. His inner radiance permeates, uplifting the spirits of those in his proximity. He infuses life with excitement, as if hitting the refresh button each day.
Why He Makes a Good Husband: Spending the rest of your life with the same person, doing many of the same things can be as boring or as exciting as you make it. Marrying this man ensures that one pitfall your marriage won’t ever fall into is that of pure and utter boredom. It sounds simple, but it’s so important.
Source: HUFFPOST
